Nicolas Loewer

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Discovery Call

Dance of Polarity

Experience the play of opposites in full expression 
& the path toward greater inner balance

Berlin, Germany | 24. January 17:00-21:00
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3h

Berlin

Beginner
Intermediate

DE/EN

80% Praxis

35–55 €

5,0 ★ (30 Reviews)

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What’s in this for you?

Maybe you know the feeling:

  • you’re curious about attraction & polarity?
  • in dating or relationships, the spark sometimes fades
    – or you lose yourself in the other person?
  • you “function” a lot and your softer side can’t keep up
    – or you’re only in flow and struggle to get from A to B?
  • you either feel too much – or you feel completely cut off?
  • or your currious about the inner energies in all of us?

The beauty is all around us & it connects us all.
Polarity is like an inner navigation system & a cosmic law. When you learn how to read it, something often happens naturally:

  • more clarity about what you need, what you radiate, and what you sense
  • more choice in how you show up
  • more real connection & intimacy
  • stronger attraction between you and others

The take away:
You get to know yourself more deeply.
You feel more calm in your body.
Encounters become easier, more honest & deeper & often more magnetic, too.

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We will experience

Moon and Sun rising

a clearer felt sense
of inner alignment

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practical exercises around giving & receiving

two hands holding each other

deeper connection & understanding of yourself and others

Couple in close connection hugging at sunset
tools for dating and relationships to cultivate tension and attraction
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Polarity unpacked: Principles, not gender

Important: Polarity is not a gender test.

In tantric understanding, it’s about complementary forces that live within all of us: conscious space and living energy, direction and surrender, structure and impulse.

Classical non-dual traditions (e.g. Kashmir Shaivism) describe this often as Shiva (consciousness) and Shakti (energy) not as labels, but as a dynamic interplay.

A well-known symbol for this is Ardhanarishvara (Shiva and Parvati as one form): a reminder that these forces belong together & that we can embody both.

When we try to solve polarity through identities alone, it often creates more pressure than closeness.
Polarity doesn’t want to be debated – it wants to be felt and consciously expressed.

A picture of Ardhanarishvara

Polarity shows up everywhere

Not just about dating. It appears in:

  • speaking & listening
  • deciding & receiving (leading vs. being led)
  • focus & flow (clear arrow vs. soft wave)
  • boundaries & surrender (a “no” as an invitation to a real yes)
  • excitement & safety
  • everywhere in nature around us (sun & moon, night & day,..)
  • complementory forces like Sun & Moon ( Ha & Tha )

The Experience

An evening that invites you into…

  • Check-in & arrival: letting go of the week, arriving in the body
  • Movement & breath: out of autopilot
  • Perception & presence: refining awareness without overthinking
  • Connection exercises: solo & partner-friendly
  • The play of polarity
  • Integration & sharing
Tantra workshop space with altar, consciously prepared for embodied practice
Roses on a chair as a ritual element in a Tantra workshop by Nicolas Loewer
Ritual altar in a Tantra workshop as a place of alignment, mindfulness, and presence
Staircase with candles and rose petals as a consciously designed workshop space for Tantra and Embodiment practice

My Core Values

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Freedom & Love

Handshake logo with two hands as a symbol of trust, agreement, and respectful collaboration in coaching and workshops

Consent & Boundaries

Eye logo as a symbol of mindful perception, visibility, and respectful encounter

Embodiment & Presence

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Community & Aliveness

More To My Ethics

Hi, I am Nico

Coach & Workshop-Facilitator.

I guide you back into body and heart, into presence and deep connection: clear, grounded, and modern.

For me, Tantra is a beautiful path into love, mindfulness, clarity, and sensitivity – one that doesn’t end in the workshop, but makes your everyday life feel noticeably richer. Tantra feels for me like poetry but in the body.

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A few words from people who’ve walked the path already

Testemonials

I had a wonderful coaching session with Nico that gave me much more clarity about my different inner parts, allowing me to align myself more clearly with my goals. He also shared valuable methods that helped me step more deeply into embodiment. I can wholeheartedly recommend a session with Nico!
Nina EichCoaching Experience
A wooooonderful workshop! Nico (and Sonja) were amazing! Maybe one of the touch based space I felt the safest in. Beautiful embodied practices, space for integration and reflection. Everything is welcome. Full package to enjoy yourself and your growth in safety. Not hard core spiritual in the proposed activity, but deeply spiritual in the embodiment of who teaches. Thank you so much!
Martina PesceWorkshop Teilnehmerin
I've been to one of Nico's group sensual journeys and that was one of a kind experience. The event was well-prepared and thought through. I enjoyed the getting together phase with various exercises and Nico's guidance throughout the journey. I highly recommend Nico's events and would love to join again in future!
Stefan ProkopenkoWorkshop Teilnehmer
Through his warm, open, and playfully heartfelt presence, Nico creates beautiful spaces for authentic expression, closeness, and connection. I feel deeply at ease and inspired through my encounters with him and truly enjoy exploring myself and my connections with others within his offerings. Thank you for your being, and all the love to you, Nico!
Hanna KrauseWorkshop Teilnehmerin
I had the pleasure of experiencing a coaching session with Nicolas and found it to be very enriching. Nicolas applied methods from systemic coaching in a professional and empathetic way. Through his attentive listening and the thoughtful questions he asked, I felt truly seen and heard—and I was able to find a solution to my own challenge by answering his questions myself. A fantastic experience that I would love to repeat. Many thanks.
Philipp SeidlerCoaching Experience
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Space & Infos

Location: Berlin Neukölln

Duration: 3 hours

Clothes: cozy & comfy, that you can move freely

Bring: waterbottle, openess and a bit of curiosity

Tickets & Prices

Choose the price that feels right for you – all tickets include the full workshop.
Early Bird tickets are available for a short time / in limited quantity.

Early Bird

For quick decision-makers
€ 35
  • full workshop
  • limited availability
  • available till 23.02
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Regular Bird

 The normal ticketprice
€ 45
  • full workshop
  • Unique Experience
  • available till Eventstart
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Regular

Supporter Bird

a special help
€ 55
  • full workshop
  • allows more reduced tickets
  • helps keep offerings accessible
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FAQ

“Dance of Polarities” is a grounded, beginner-friendly experience where you explore polarity as an inner navigation system—so you gain more clarity in how you show up, more choice in your expression, and more real connection (often feeling more “magnetic” without trying).

We focus mostly on the principles, not identities: e.g.giving & recieving, emissiv & reflective, direction & surrendering, consciousness & energy (often described as Shiva/Shakti). Tantra explains that all energies are in each of us. Some are more dominant then others. For male identified beings its usually holding space, guiding and being a stable ground. For feminine identified beings its usually more flow, enegy, talking, dancing & being a full expression of themselves. We all have both in each of us and together we will explore how everything feels.

No. This is not a sex workshop. The focus is on presence, polarity,
nervous-system-friendly exercises, and connection practices—not sexual acts, nudity, or performance.

Only if you want to. Everything is invitation-based and consent-led.
Many practices are solo; partner exercises are “partner-friendly” (and adaptable).
You can always opt out, pause, observe, or choose more distance.

Yes. The space is designed to be warm, clear, and non-performative.
You never have to share more than you want, and you’re welcome to go slowly.
The structure supports safety (check-ins, clear guidelines, integration) so you can participate in a way that feels manageable.

We move slower and control your pace.
The work is resource-oriented and trauma-sensitive: regulation before intensity.
You can stop, step out, ground, breathe, and get support.
And it’s clearly stated: this is not therapy and not suitable for acute crisis states.

Yes—singles and couples are welcome. Polarity shows up far beyond dating:
in speaking & listening, deciding & receiving, focus & flow, boundaries & surrender.
You can explore it solo and in connection, without needing to arrive with a partner.

The core container is simple and strong:
confidentiality, consent & boundaries, self-responsibility, and co-creation
—plus clear roles (facilitator, not guru), and a respectful, non-manipulative culture.
“No” is complete; “yes” can change anytime.

Ready to experience Tantra?

As a felt experience.
Come as you are & leave with more aliveness, clarity,
& a deeper sense of what Tantra means for you.

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