Ethics & Container

This page describes how I hold space so you know in advance what to expect, and what you can truly rely on.

Especially in the field of Tantra, intimacy, and personal development, clarity, boundaries, and choice are not “nice extras”

-they are the foundation of any deep experience. If anything is unclear or you have any extra questions, reach out anytime.

Nico Loewer smiling softly while looking into the distance—an expression of confidence and clarity

My Approach

My role in our container is a space holder, facilitator, and guide.
As someone who creates a clear and warm container
– so you can meet yourself and others, soften, and return to ease, aliveness and vulnerability.
Together we Co-create our experience and everything can be said!

Core Values

Man with relaxed smile in a workshop with eyes closed, receiving gentle touch

Boundaries & Pace

You keep your choice at all times.

You are welcome to:

  • pause
  • simply observe
  • adapt an exercise
  • say “stop”
  • take more space
  • step out of an exercise
  • leave at any time


And you don’t have to explain yourself.
Here, boundaries are not a problem – they are a sign of self-connection, and they help create safety for everyone.

Hand placed at heart level of a participant during a black-and-white Tantra workshop, symbolizing closeness, presence, and deep connection

Resource-Oriented & Trauma-Sensitive

My approach is resource-oriented and trauma-sensitive:
regulation before intensity. safety before “breakthrough.”
If something feels like too much, there are always options:

pause, distance, orienting in the room, breathing, returning to a safe anchor.

Important: this work does not replace psychotherapy. It can complement it –but I don’t promise “healing in a workshop.”

Confidentiality & Privacy

What is shared in the room stays in the room.

  • We share learnings – not names or other people’s stories.
  • Sharing is always optional: you choose how much you say.
  • You can express your “no” at any moment
  • 1:1 stay with me 
Embodiment Workshop in Berlin of Nicolas Loewer with prayer hands infront of the chest

Power & Roles

A safe space isn’t created by warmth alone – it also needs clear roles.

  • I’m a facilitator/coach – you remain the expert of your life.
  • I don’t convince you: no exercise is more important than your sense of safety.
  • We care for group dynamics: no one is shamed, pressured, or “coached” without consent.
  • If something feels off, it will be addressed – not brushed away.

You’re welcome to trust me –
and you’re also welcome to question me.

When It’s Not the Right Fit

If you’re currently in an acute crisis or don’t feel stable enough:
1:1 support or therapeutic guidance is often the safer next step.
This isn’t exclusion – it’s care.

Two fingers moving mindfully during a Tantra exercise

Questions? Message Me.

If you’re unsure whether a workshop or format is right for you,
send me a short note about where you are and what you’re looking for.

I’ll reply as fast as possible. 

Ready, to experience Tantra?

As a sensation.
Come as you are and leave with more aliveness,
clarity and wisdom of what  Tantra is.